Independence. be happy with yourself before you try being happy with someone Else. In a day and age where everyone is trying to find their soulmate and the person they will spend their life with it seems to slip in our minds that we are the person we will spend our life with and I cannot stress to you enough how important it is that we are happy with that person.
In a world of let’s say ohh about 7.28 billion people it’s nice to know that nobody is ever truly alone however it’s also nice to know that if you are alone it’s OK. So many of my clients come to me wondering when they’re going to meet the person of their dreams well in honor of this Independence Day I say we should stop worrying about when we’re going to meet this person and focus on becoming this person for ourselves I couldn’t stress to you enough how important it is to be happy with the person you are and the life you’re living so if you just so happen to be single and in the process of waiting for The right one to come along use this time to focus on yourself and become the strong independent person you were always meant to be focus on yourself and doing what you love coming into your own skin and your own way of life after all that’s what independence is all about. being who you want and how you want and not needing anybody else to tell you if that’s OK or help you be that person you’d be surprised how quickly the person you Will be happy with can come along when you’re actually happy with yourself.
At this point some of you maybe asking how to find your independence how to become happy with yourself. well there are so many ways Number one let go of all the holdbacks every excuse you’ve ever made or obstacle you’ve allowed to stand in your way let go of them in the forward take that class you’ve always wanted to take or go on that trip you’ve always wanted to go on by that nice dress you’ve been admiring in the window for weeks go see that movie that you’ve been wanting to see or go to that restaurant you wanted to try and do it all completely alone you would be surprised of how empowering it feel even though you would imagine that feeling lonely one of the best ways to come into your own skin is by following these tips above after all you don’t know if you don’t like something unless you try it be daring and take a chance.
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